So, you have worked out the basics, met someone, held a conversation, liked them, and now you have fallen in love with them. Once those are clear, we come to the next aspect, and that is How long should you wait before saying ‘I love you’? This can be tricky; you will be required to know the right balance. If you say it too soon, it might scare the person, and if you say it too late, then it might make the person lose interest. So the key is to strike the perfect balance. And how do we create that? Please read to know more.

How Long Should You Wait Before Saying I Love You

We have managed to pull together a list which might be helpful for you. It will focus on following areas.

• When Should You Say I Love You
• How long should you wait before saying I love you
• when to say “I love you to your boyfriend?’

1. You meet people on a daily basis, and sometimes, there is a person who strikes your fancy. It could be because of any reason, their looks, their personality or even the way they smile. Matter of hearts know no bounds. You try to get to know the person, sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn’t. And when it does, you then will explore the person. How they laugh, think, react? What are the things which get them excited? All these information matters to you the most. After you have crossed that stage, you become eligible to ponder upon the question that is being discussed today. [Also Check: Hacks to Keep Love Alive]
2. When you are sure that you love him- this is the most important point that you should keep in mind. You do things when you know that there is a drive within you to execute it. For example, if somebody forces me to watch a movie then I will sulk my way through it or will not be appreciative of it. The same concept applies to love as well. Express your feelings when you know that those are authentic and stand true. Or else you will end up not only hurting them but yourself as well.
3. When you know the person- we have enough proof of people getting besotted in love, marrying each other the second day and then ending up with bitter divorces or breakups. This happens when the pair does not know each other and when they do, they find that they are not compatible. We brainstorm to buy a mobile phone, why not think and take wise steps when it comes to investing emotionally? So, my advice is, take the step only when you think you know the person.
4. When you think they will not run away- voicing your feelings is a big deal. Not everyone can do t and it shouldn’t be taken lightly. Which is why the second point comes handy here. If you know the person, then you will know whether they will run away or not if you choose to say “I love you”. Communicating is a good exercise, if they accept you, then congratulations are in order and if they don’t then you will always have a friend.
5. When you know that you will stick around- nobody likes a runner. Love demands commitment, if you are professing your love to them, then you should also be able to stick around when times get hard, which it will. There is the good and then there is the bad. If a person stays for the times he likes and leaves when it gets rough;then it cannot be called love. It will be called convenience. Beware of that.

So these are the normal parameters that you should take care of when you serenade them with your feelings. It would be wise to mention that, the average time to say I love you ranges from 2-3 months.

But do what your heart says. All the best reader!

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