It hurts, it hurts when a relationship which you cherished so much ends. The whole process changes you, for better or for worse, that depends on you. I remember my breakup. The night he left me, I laid shocked on my bed for the entire night thinking that it is all just a dream. But trust me, it wasn’t. It took me a whole year to get over him. And while doing that, I realized that I wasn’t the only one going through such a mess. There were many girls crying their eyes out and hoping that their ex-boyfriend come back to them. So I took it upon myself to help the larger cause. I brainstormed for a quite a while and came up with a list of the title “should I give up on my ex-boyfriend?”
Right Time To Give Up On my Ex boyfriend And Move On
It is a question which is being thought over by many girls in such a dilemma. They still love, but in doing so, they get hurt so much, so they don’t know whether it is worth it or not. But not all cases are like that; some cases still have hope. The list will help you differentiate between these two points. It will also give you an idea as to how to direct your action plan to get him back. The article carries the following topics of discussion.
- when to give up on an ex-boyfriend?
- how long to give ex space?
Two burning points which need attention. So without any further ado, let us start with the list.
- When your ex is with someone else. This should be the written in red and in bold. Don’t keep your hopes thinking that they would break up. That would be wrong. You are stronger than this and besides, if your ex-boyfriend loved you then he would not have broken up with you or even if he did, he would not have gotten with someone else. Going into a full-fledged relationship with a new person can be daunting. So if the man you love is with someone else, then this the time when you give up on him.
- If there was abuse involved in the tenure of your relationship. No matter how much you love him, if he hurt you emotionally or physically, then it would be wise if you stay away from him. He is not worth it in that case. You deserve better and it will soon find you if you let yourself live. Having hope will damage your mental peace and even if he gets back, will it mean that the abuse will stop? No, nobody can guarantee that. It was only a relationship now, imagine if this were happening in something more permanent.
- If he cheated on you. If the man you loved cheated on you then he never really loved, you to begin with. Not with the same commitment so say the least. If he cheated on you, then this implies he will do it again. He does not respect your feelings; he does not value the person that you are. If such is the case, it is better than you get rid of such a man. [Also Read: How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Jealous]
- If both of you don’t respect each other. What is the point of the relationship when there isn’t mutual respect or acknowledgement? One of you will always feel belittled or left out. If it is suppressed now, it will come out later and in an uglier form. It depends on you, which do you prefer. Respect is one of the pillars on which a relationship is cemented. So if you can’t rebuild that, then there is no point. Give him space, if the issues can be worked then go for it. Allow him to gain perspective.
- If he puts his ego first. My friend once told me if ego comes in the relationship then love goes out. Such clashes are never good. So if you see happening then quickly leave.
- When he tells you to leave. Whatever be his reason, if he says that then take it as a lesson and try to move on. It might be tough but it is not impossible because if somebody loves you, they will try to find a way anyhow. It is sad, but it is the truth.
I hope the article helped you and it can be used other way round as well. For example, if you are wondering, “when to stop trying to get your ex-girlfriend back” or if your heart says “don’t give up on ex-girlfriend.”
I wish you all the luck and love.
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